I'm not that so afraid of strangers. Well, sometimes it depends on their approach. Usually, am very much eager and interested to discover the differences and uniqueness of each one.I don't mind if that's our first acquaintance. My objective on that is to lend my ear to their humble view and sentiments about the world and life we are living. It makes me realize to the different roles we are playing and on how fortunate I am where we're standing right now. I even admire those who are really in midst of great poverty and suffering, that despite of the miseries, they still survive;that's why, whenever I'm in a travel I prefer riding in public utility and vehicles such as buses and jeeps.
In parallel with, I keep on understanding others. Probably, there some whom we don't like or we consider bad. Yet, if we are going to analyze it's not also right to set judgments directly especially if we do not know yet the person well.You can't say that you already know the totality of that person no matter how long you have been together because in reality people are versatile and changing. From time to time, they can change their minds and behaviors. How much more short acquaintances, it's very limited. Though, often, we can't stop on setting judgments;nevertheless, if we will think first of it before speaking it out, we can control this. If we don't really like the person then just ignore them.
Moreover, we can't blame them for what they are now. There are factors on it. We might don't know their pasts, environment and experiences which molded whom they are now, nevertheless,it doesn't necessarily follow that who they are now will be the who they will be. It maybe just a matter on giving them a chance to change and most especially with their own motivation.
In parallel with, I keep on understanding others. Probably, there some whom we don't like or we consider bad. Yet, if we are going to analyze it's not also right to set judgments directly especially if we do not know yet the person well.You can't say that you already know the totality of that person no matter how long you have been together because in reality people are versatile and changing. From time to time, they can change their minds and behaviors. How much more short acquaintances, it's very limited. Though, often, we can't stop on setting judgments;nevertheless, if we will think first of it before speaking it out, we can control this. If we don't really like the person then just ignore them.
Moreover, we can't blame them for what they are now. There are factors on it. We might don't know their pasts, environment and experiences which molded whom they are now, nevertheless,it doesn't necessarily follow that who they are now will be the who they will be. It maybe just a matter on giving them a chance to change and most especially with their own motivation.
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